What happens when a malignant narcsissist is also delusional? By Hal M. Brown, MSW

Clinical psychologist and Donald Trump's niece Mary Trump thinks her uncle is delusional. Below is is what she wrote on her website.

I've highlighted the portion that struck me below:

I wouldn’t be shocked, either. We know my uncle is committed to re-writing the history of his attempted coup. He’s even directed Pam Bondi, his latest Attorney General nominee, to investigate the 2020 election for fraud that does not exist.

Donald is determined to force his delusions into reality, and he will use the Justice Department to help him do that.

In my clinically informed opinion as someone who worked as a psychotherapist for 40 years it isn't only delusions about the coup and his winning the election but his susceptibility to believing other things that are demonstrably untrue that shed light on his psychopathology.

This is from the Wikipedia description of delusional disorder:

Delusional disorder, traditionally synonymous with paranoia, is a mental illness in which a person has delusions, but with no accompanying prominent hallucinations, thought disorder, mood disorder, or significant flattening of affect. Delusions are a specific symptom of psychosis. Delusions can be bizarre or non-bizarre in content;  non-bizarre delusions are fixed false beliefs that involve situations that could occur in real life, such as being harmed or poisoned. Apart from their delusion or delusions, people with delusional disorder may continue to socialize and function in a normal manner and their behavior does not necessarily seem odd. However, the preoccupation with delusional ideas can be disruptive to their overall lives.

Most of the severely mentally ill patients I treated or had in my program had the symptoms of their psychosis controlled with medication. One unmedicated patient I recall with a delusional disorder believed that a famous Hollywood star was in love with him and was sending him mental messages. He ended up at the airport without a ticket trying to board a plane to California insisting the star would pay for it when he arrived.

The consquences of the delusions Trump and some of his supporters seem beset with are far less benign. My client didn't try to hijack a plane. Trump and his delusional cadre of enablers want to hijack our democracy.

Of course some of these people aren't delusional. They are psychopaths. I won't name names here but those who want to inflict pain on others whether they are migrants, so-called enemies of the state, or people protesting peacefully, I am convinced that if clincally evaluated they would be diagnosed as psychopathic personalities. This is "a personality construct characterized by impaired empathy and remorse, in combination with traits of boldness, disinhibition, and egocentrism. These traits are often masked by superficial charm and immunity to stress, which create an outward appearance of apparent normalcy." (Wikipedia)

The psychopaths are people who may or may not be aware that Trump and others who he is influenced by are clinically delusional, but they are more than willing to take advantage of the fact that Trump has these false beliefs.

Combine Trump's malignant narcissism (see The malevolent magnetic malignant narcissism of Trumpworld) which includes a lack of empathy and sadism with his delusions you have a dangerous mix of psyhopathologies which ultimately will not just cause people to suffer but is likely to lead to the loss of innocent life. 

As if this isn't unsettling enough add the phallocentricism of Trump and his hyper-masculine crew (see The penises on the Potomac: the country has enthroned phallocentric rule) we have the real possiblity that we will have a replay of the Kent State Masacre. (See Will it take another Kent State Massacre to convince Trump supporters that he's gone too far?)

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We're going to have a president afflicted with "midnight meltdown disease." What could go wrong? By Hal M. Brown, MSW

 

The HuffPost article Trump Hurls Attacks At Maggie Haberman In Midnight Meltdown About Her Reporting inspired me to do a Google search about Trump and his midnight meltdowns. Above you see the first links in a general Google search and in a Google News search for Trump meltdown. Google didn't provide the DonkeyHotey caricature. I added this.

My focus here isn't that Maggie Haberman has a special place in Trump's heart. I think she has become a kind of mother figure for him. He wants her unconditional love. As psychoanalysts know, the age of the analyst makes no difference when what is called transference occurs. This is from Psychology Today

If a patient’s mother was extremely judgmental to her as a child, and the therapist makes an observation that the patient perceives as judgmental, the patient might express that and even lash out at the therapist. This response could be interpreted as her applying to her therapist the same feelings that she felt toward her mother. A patient’s response to a therapist may also resemble her response to a romantic partner or some other person in her life.

All this is besides the point. Maggie Haberman is just one trigger for Trump's midnight rage attacks. His reactions to her offer an open door into the inner workings of his mind for anyone, especially mental health professionals like me, to diagnose him. Because he has his Truth Social he knows that that he "truths" (their term for a tweet or post) will be seen by those he is mercilessly lambasting and it will be shared in the media. He can't attack them to their face so he attacks them "in their face."

When he attacks Maggie Haberman I envision him sitting with her in couples counseling where the therapist can assess his psychopathology. What would a marriage counselor think if a husband angrily called his journalist wife a third rate writer and fourth rate intellect?

As someone who did a lot of marriage counseling in his 40 year career as a psychotherapist I can say that in addition to considering that he was jealous of her (or him) I'd be assessing whether or not a husband had an anger control disorder and that they couldn't mediate their impulses to lash out and hurt their spouse's feelings. I would note that they lacked empathy and might be a malignant narcissist. I would suspect that they had an inferiority complex. If they had a history of violence, or even violent fantasies, I'd be very concerned for the safety of their spouse.

Now let's take this analogy further. What if this man was also the President of the United States and his spouse was everyone in the country, or the world for that matter, who pissed him off?

During the day Trump has a few people around to act as a check on acting on his midnight manifestations of anger. With Trump this could be his chief of staff Susie Wiles who I suspect is a major mother figure for him. In the wee hours of the morning when he's been seething all day over a severe criticism, a FTBD (failure to bow down), or minimizing his magnificence, he's unrestrained and uninhibited there's nobody around. Does anyone believe he'd wake up Melania, assuming she's in his bedroom, and ask her for a hug because he's feeling upset? I assume the nearest people to him are the military officers with the nuclear football. More about this at the end of this blog.

In an oddly ironic way we are fortunate that Trump has midnight meltdown disease because it shows him at his worst. We all know what it is like to have a physical symptom at home which disappears when you go to see the doctor. Say you have chest pains so bad they wake you up but they only occur after midnight. This would be of serious concern. We have to take what Trump is like at midnight seriously. It is symptomatic of a serious psychopathology.

Trump is like a nuclear reactor which has been melting down for four years. Some of the control rods which prevented a mental meltdown were removed when he lost the election. More were removed when he had to sit in the E. Jean Carroll courtroom. Nobody can know with certainty what the last control rod stopping the meltdown will be. It could be something major like a surprise Supreme Court decision which goes against him or the refusal of the armed forces to carry out illegal orders. It could be a well publicized failure to deliver on his major promises which leads to some of his previously loyal members of Congress to turn against him. 

It even could be something as simple as a photo of him dancing with Melania at his inaugural ball with her looking like she has the stomach flu. She managed to fake it seven years ago (watch here if you can stand it), but this time it could be different. This could go viral and lead to tweets calling him an incel and leading to snarky speculation about when the last time was that Trump had his manly man needs satisfied and had his former model wife begging for more.

Trump supprounds himself with those he considers to be masters of the manosphere. If there was a musical made about him it might be called "Phantom of Phallocentricism." Men like this deeply doubt their masculinity. I am sure that Stormy Daniel's well publicized description of his apparatus still haunts him. All of this makes Trump more dangerous when someone challenges him.

I can imagine the scene on a nuclear missile armed submarine in the Pacific when they get an order at 2:00 AM Washington time to launch an attack on California when Trump has become enraged over their refusal to help round up migrants.

What could go wrong?

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Here's proof that Elon Musk resides in Trump's toxic MAGA phallocentric misogynistic manosphrere, by Hal M. Brown, MSW

 

I first saw this when Vanity Fair's Molly-Jong Fast reposted it on BlueSky (above and at this link). Then doing a little web search I saw that Rachel Maddow talked about it on her show, watch brief video here:

This was reported on elsewhere, for example here:

This article reminds us that he used the same illustration before he bought Twitter, only with the name Donald Trump on the monk or priest, as if the convicted rapist and notorious proud pussy-grabber would have to pray to resist the titilating temptation shown.

It turns out that the artist who created the original, Milo Manara, is not particularly happy about it being used.

This is what he wrote on his Facebook page:

I wish Elon Musk would be forced to tweet a thousand times:

"I will never use Milo Manara drawings again without permission. I will never again use Milo Manara's drawings without permission. I will never again use..."

How about I sue him, asking for $44Bn in compensation? Then I could buy back Twitter and give it back to someone else to manage!

We also have the tweet shown below from Donald Trump, Jr. which shows that "Bigly

 Daddydick" is most probably aware of the possibility that Musk could buy MSNBC:

There's no reason to reiterate what I think about the way Trump has surrounded himself with deeply insecure men who mask their unconscious doubts about themselves in hypermasculinity. I wrote "The penises on the Potomac: the country has enthroned phallocentric rule" a few days ago and I think it is worth republishing it again in light not only of this, but also in consideration of the sexual allegations or sexual abuse history of some of his nominees. This is the subject of 'Historic': Lawmaker calls Trump nominees' sexual misconduct allegations record-breaking in RawStory.

Here's my previous blog:

 

HuffPost described four men in their main story today: Trump Is Filling His White House With Men Accused Of Sexual Misconduct. They didn't bother to mention that the fifth man not only accused but convicted of sexual misconduct has already assured his place in the White House because everyone knows this.

They did decide to show photos of Elon Musk, RFK Jr., Matt Gaetz, and Peter Hegseth which depicted them tightlipped and as looking particularly smug. In my illustration I added a DonkeyHotey caricature which perhaps presciently was used to illustrate this 2018 Salon article: Removing Trump from office would come at a steep price.

It may be that Trump's law breaking and law bending contributed to his losing the election to Joe Biden. If it did, we'll never know how much. The election was close and left the man whose Mario mushroom manliness was mocked by Stormy Daniels feeling enraged. Between losing the election and Stormy there was no way someone with the rigid psychological defenses of Trump could let feelings of emasculation percolate into conscious awareness. For Trump every element of his self concept is connected to his feeling hyper-masculine.

Trump's loss in the election and what he feels was his persecution by his enemies set him up to begin his to run again and win. He had four years to plan his winning strategy and revenge. 

There's noone more dangerous than a man who feels his manhood was mocked who then has a chance to rule not just the manosphere, which he already ruled, but the entire country, man, woman, and child.

At 555 ft. tall the Washington Monument dwarfs the second tallest building, the Old Post Office, which is 315 ft. tall. Yes, that's the building a Trump company leased and turned into the Trump International Hotel where people curried favor with Trump by staying there. It was sold in 2022 and the Trump signage was removed.

The National Park Service, which is part of the Department of the Interior, manages the Washington Momument. Trump has selected big oil, gas, and coal advocate North Dakota Gov. Doug Burgum to head the Department of Interior.

I wonder if he'd have time as he implements Trump's fossil fuel promises to have the Washington Momument made over to honor Trump. If a likeness of Trump's was added to the top of the monument think of the thrill his supporters would have seeing Washington from inside of his head.

Update: 

'Out here running toilet scams': Spectators dump on Trump's newest administration pick

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Trump picks Matthew Whitaker for NATO ambassador," the news outlet Tennessee Holler told readers Wednesday. "You may remember him as the acting attorney general who was on the board of a company that boasted toilets for 'well-endowed men.'"

"Whitaker was also a cartoonish, grifting dope who shilled for a company that hawked time-travel cryptocurrencies, Bigfoot dolls, and toilets specially designed for men with big d----," GQ reported at the time. "[It] was shut down for good and paid a $26 million fine to the Federal Trade Commission earlier this year for its alleged wrongdoing."

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Will it take another Kent State Massacre to convince Trump supporters that he's gone too far? By Hal M. Brown

 

Read Sabrina Haake's substack The Haake Take: Passivity is the enemy- dog update, it inspired me to write this. 

Here's an excerpt:

MAGA reminds me of chaining a dog

Hearing a dog bark all night while it’s 20º F outside, I realize I feel the same way about MAGA voters as I feel about people who chain their dog(s) outside 24/7. Anyone who has ever loved a dog knows how barbaric this practice is. Neanderthalic and needlessly cruel, dog chainers and MAGA remind me that humans co-exist on a random continuum of evolution. We aren’t all plotted on the same line of the same graph at the same time; the dots veer off in all directions like electrons in an atom. Some countries and some people are stuck in the fifth century, while others show us the future. America’s choppy pas de deux with itself is a blend of forward steps, then backward, intelligent people dancing alongside morons. (Call this elitist, I don’t care, truth has to matter or what are we doing?)

When I see a dog living on a chain, an often hidden and too-common cruelty, I feel simultaneous heartbreak for the dog and contempt bordering on hatred for his jailer. After years in animal advocacy,these unwelcome feelings are nothing new. It is new, however, to feel both things at once for the same group of people. Many MAGA voters-- as distinguished from wealthy Trump oligarchs-- voted against their own self-interests just for the opportunity to hurt others. 

If Trump ever figures out how to implement his most hairbrained ideas, economically disadvantaged MAGA voters will suffer the most. A more evolved person than I am would pity them, but, like dog chainers, I consider them victims of their own cruelty and ignorance and find compassion for them nearly impossible.

My partner and I along with a friend had dinner with a new resident, a woman who grew up and and ran a ranch in a southwestern state, in the senior community where we live. It is a very progressive place but we still couldn't tell at first whether she was a Trumper. Instead of asking outright we segued into the topic and finally found out she was as anti-Trump as we are. Little did I know at the time that I'd end up blogging this morning about some of what we talked about.

Now to the dogs... she has a lovely 13 year old dog and we ended up talking about the pets we all had. Somehow the subject of people who abuse pets came up and I said that I would support capital punishment for them while I'd look at the murder of people more carefully since often there are extenuating circumstances justifying this. Everyone agreed with me. I said there's never an excuse for taking the life of healthy pet. 

Everone agreed that people who did this were also likely to be Trump supporters. 

Even though we live in a suburb of progressive Portland, Oregon, we ended up talking about personally feeling unsafe. This led me to describing a piece I posted on Daily Kos which, after posting over 1700 essays there, I got banned without explanation or recourse because someone misinterpreted what I wrote. 

I wrote about what I would do if the Trump storm troopers attacked our liberal enclave. Since I was a reserve police officer for 20 years (perhaps something unusual for a dog and cat loving psychotherapist) I knew how to use fire arms.

You can read what I wrote about what I tried to post there.  I included the old photo of me (above) in the story. I am pictured in front of the cranberry bog which we owned. The post was removed before I could copy it.

Basically my Daily Kos story was about how I would use my skill in shooting to at least not submit without a fight to being rounded up by the Trump version of the Gestapo or SS. Someone flagged what I wrote as a promotion of violence when I was writing about self-defense.

Sabrina Haake writes about the good Germans. Of course she doesn't refer to modern Germans. Germany is one of a large number of coutries which ban the display of Nazi symbols including Russia (see Wikipedia). She is referring to the ordinary Germans who either went along with Hitler's atrocities or helped to implement them.

These are the Germans decribed in "Hitler's Willing Executioners."  This should be as cautionary a book as  Orwells "1984", Sinclair Lewis' 1935 novel "It Can't Happen Here" and Margert Atwood's "The Handmaid's Tale."

This is from the Wikipedia page on Hitler's Willing Executioners:

Hitler's Willing Executioners: Ordinary Germans and the Holocaust is a 1996 book by American writer Daniel Goldhagen, in which he argues collective guilt, that the vast majority of ordinary Germans were "willing executioners" in the Holocaust because of a unique and virulent "eliminationist antisemitism" in German political culture which had developed in the preceding centuries. Goldhagen argues that eliminationist antisemitism was the cornerstone of German national identity, was unique to Germany, and because of it ordinary German conscripts killed Jews willingly. Goldhagen asserts that this mentality grew out of medieval attitudes rooted in religion and was later secularized.

The book challenges several common ideas about the Holocaust that Goldhagen believes to be myths. These "myths" include the idea that most Germans did not know about the Holocaust; that only the SS, and not average members of the Wehrmacht, participated in murdering Jews; and that genocidal antisemitism was a uniquely Nazi ideology without historical antecedents.

In my title I ask whether it will take another Kent State Massacre to convince Trump supporter that he's gone too far?

Lamentably, I am pessimistic about this. The only hope I see is that Trump did not win the landslide he and his minions claim to have won. However, we are not as so many pundits claim, a 50/50 nation. Considering that about a third of eligible voters didn't vote we are a nation divided into thirds. One third are the Trump voters who either want authoritarian rule or were so gullible and uninformed they bought his lies and believed that his promises would benefit them, one third are democracy loving Americans, and one third didn't give a sh*t enough to vote.

Perhaps if Trump goes on an authoritarian rampage which results in the loss of life will there be enough hue and cry that there will be a true popular uprising to stop him. This may take the military to go against him because he orders them to do things that violate the oath they took to uphold the Constitution.

No matter who gives an order, even if it is a general, if it is unlawful members of the armed forces are obliged not to follow it.

Addendum:

Trump is a malignant (or psychopathic) and sadistic narcissist.. the grandiose narcissitic part isn't nearly the worst of it (lots of people are narcissists but don't enjoy hurting people)... it is that Trump has no empathy. Even worse than this, enjoys watching his enemies suffer, and if this isn't bad enough he is thrilled when he causes his enemies to have pain.

I am among the therapists like Dr. John Gartner, Dr. Bandy Lee, Dr. Lance Dodes, who have been warning about this since 2017. In his first term he was restrained. Now his cruelest impulses will enabled by people with similar psychopathology.

I wrote  the column Trump’s sadistic, malignant narcissism (here) in October. 2018 in Capitol Hill Blue. To say that what I and other mental health experts were saying about the dangerousness of Trump before and soon after he was elected Trump proved to be correct is an understatement.

Yesterday I wrote  The malevolent magnetic malignant narcissism of Trumpworld .

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The malevolent magnetic malignant narcissism of Trumpworld, By Hal M. Brown, MSW

 

Wikipedia used a painting of an innocent  Narcissisus enraptured by his visage by Jan Cossiers to illustrate their entry for malignant narcissism. I modified it to show a more malignant version of him.

This is the second parapgraph in the Wikipedia entry for malignant narcissism:

"Malignant narcissists are grandiose and always ready to raise hostility levels, which undermines the families and organizations in which they are involved, and dehumanizes the people with whom they associate."

(Above) You can read  "Sharp elbows and raised voices: Inside Trump’s bumpy transition" if you have a subscription to The Washington Post,  or read a summary in RawStory here.

Donald Trump has long been defined as a malignant narcissist by experts. In fact Dr. John D. Gartner, who became a long distant friend, wrote Donald Trump's maligant narsissism is toxic in USA Today in May of 2017.

If you Google Trump malignant narcissist this is what comes up. 

The first article there is More than 200 health professionals say Trump has ‘malignant narcissism’ in open letter from The Guardian. I am one of the people who signed this letter for all the good that publishing it on page three of The New York Times in white type on a black background did. 

Far be it from me to coin a new psychiatric term, but it does appear that other malignant narcissists are drawn to Trump and he is drawn to them. This we could say that like attracts like. In the instance of malignant narcisism this is a kind of magnetism so we can call it magnetic maligant narcisism. 

I do like alliterations so lets add a word. Malevolent magnetic malignant narcissism does have a ring to it and this is what it is.

Trump is like a physicist who has created a nuclear reactor by encircling himself with highly enriched radioactive material so when he hits the "on" switch it is full power and full speed ahead in fueling the destruction of democracy.

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